How to Flirt into February with Dil Milay’s Online Dating Tips

February is not the only love month, right? Love is definitely in the air though when looking towards Valentine’s Day – and since it is right in the middle, you’ve got all month to turn up the heat and the activity in online dating. Add some healthy flirtation and you’ve mixed in some spice that helps everyone feel nice. This month, Dil Milay the online dating app designed for the South Asian community offers some tips for flirting while enjoying online discovery or dating time. See what you can adapt from the art of flirting!

Most definitely, flirting is an art. It requires some degree of confidence, yet also some smarts on where to draw the line on bravado so you don’t come off as well… no other way to say it than, slimy. Don’t be too meek either!

Here are some tips to help you find your unique balance then:

Stay light

  • Flirting is meant to be fun, so be light of heart.
  • If you can be funny, and still make sense to the other person, then do that. If funny is a stretch for you, go for playful.
  • People will be eager to connect with you again, to speak and eventually to meet if you show your lighter, fun side.

Be confident

  • People want to feel good in your company, including online conversations.
  • Positivity attracts and if you are confident you are projecting that.

Compliments count

  • A sincere compliment, costs nothing and yet is invaluable in opening doors, and hearts.
  • Make it real, make it often (or at least not rare). Remember we mentioned confidence above, so feel free to give a compliment. And, by the way, confidence also means you can say “thank you” when you get a compliment, without mumbling it away in self-deprecation.

A good flirt partner listens

  • The art in flirting is not just about what to say, compliment or impress with. It’s about the real listening you can do so really hear what the person is telling you about themselves and how they respond to you.
  • You know what they say about good conversationalists: People who are interesting, are people who are interested. In flirting, the nicest impression of you can be that you listened and remembered and THEN commented with confidence and optimism and a lighthearted compliment.

What flirting isn’t?

Uhmm do we even need to say this? Flirting doesn’t include super sexual remarks, or you feeling offended if your approach is too over the top and is not met with a response, you find favourable. Yah…it may be time for a different approach if you are being turned down, or outright rejected often.

Take your time with flirting. It’s just one step in getting to know someone and connecting on the way to a successful relationship.

If you do engage in flirting, send a nice note after your chat.

Dil Milay online dating app has you covered on the platform. It’s just nice and thoughtful. So, send a message, an email or a sticker of gift. It’s right up there with a well-mannered thank you note and goes a long way to your dating success

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